Leather BrunchBackyard (3820 S. Ferdinand St. [behind Rookies], Seattle), 10:15 am–12:00 noon / order from menu
Seattle Men in Leather’s monthly Leather Brunch returns!
We will be holding this at the Backyard space at/behind Rookies in Columbia City on the 1st Sunday of the month for the rest of this year. The Backyard promises an off-the-menu brunch with a few standard brunch items with a touch of BBQ theme. We will have 4-5 tables reserved for us initially (for about 20 people), but can expand if more people show up. (We don’t have the entire space… yet. If enough people show up…)
Street parking is available in the neighborhood, including a $2 pay lot across the street. The #7 bus runs through Columbia City, and the LINK light rail stop is only a few blocks away.
There is no dress code for the brunch, but Gear It Up anyway and make the space our own. (But remember: No Shirt No Shoes No Service also means you need to wear pants [or equivalent], so no butt cheeks.)
The space does not open until 10 am, so we have set the start time at 10:15. The Backyard will host a viewing of the Seahawks games starting at 1 pm, so there will be a crowd change around 12:30 on game days.
MenInSpace
TheSpace2 (Vancouver, BC), 11:00 am–3:00 pm / $10
The event for men tying with men. Every first Sunday of the month, TheSpace2 opens its doors exclusively for those who identify as men who want to follow their passion amongst each other. This rope social has no instructional character but skill sharing between participants is always welcome. Dress code: Comfortable to tie in/casual/no nudity. Coffee and Tea provided at TheSpace2. Email
shibaridojovancouver@gmail.com for address, etc.
Knights of Mantra-Jet Chapter Board and Members Meetings
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 2:00–4:00 pm
Board meeting at 2:00 pm, general members meeting at 3:00.
Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) Salem Meeting
Salem, OR, 3:30–5:30 pm
MAsT: Salem is a pansexual group that meets monthly for education about, discussion of, and support in power exchange relationships. If you would like to attend, make a point of introducing yourself to either SilentType or LilMissAnjelle. If we don’t know you, it’s almost certain you won’t be invited. We try to respect the privacy of our fellow attendees. It is not a “drop in” event, so please do arrive no later than the end of the gathering time. If that is not possible for you, please wait for the next meeting. If you would like to bring a snack (for yourself or to share) or drinks (for yourself or to share) feel free to do so. Location details will be provided when we respond to the RSVP’ed folks. Regarding RSVP: We try to respond to RSVPs no later than a week before the meeting. If you RSVP in the last week before the meeting, please send a message as well because we will probably be more sporadic in checked to be sure that everyone is attended to. Included in the RSVP response will be the topic and the location. Our meeting will be set up as follows: 3:30–4:00 gathering time, 4:00–5:00 discussion, 5:00–5:30 visiting time.
Waltz Lessons (Level 2)
Century Ballroom West Hall (915 E Pine 2nd floor, Seattle), 6:00–7:00 pm / $65 per class (4 weeks), $5 discount for advance payment
Instructors: Dean and Jodi, featuring Cross-Step Waltz. Drop-ins ($15) are allowed if you have already taken the class and the class is out of balance (lead/follow) in your favor. Runs through December 15.
XL Bears Game Day
Intrigue Chocolate and Coffeehouse (1520 15th Ave., Seattle), 6:00–9:00 pm
Join XL Bears at our favorite gay-owned and operated coffee shop for board games, chocolate, coffee and fun! Bring a game to share!
Dance Dance Dance Tuesdays
Vancouver-Japanese United Church (4010 Victoria Dr, Vancouver, BC), 6:30–9:30 pm (lessons @ 7:00 pm) / $10 (cash only)
We’ll dance something old, something new. Beginner to intermediate level dances will be taught, reviewed, and played throughout the night with some partner dances thrown in just for fun. Cookies, snacks, and smiles are encouraged. Drop-ins are welcome. Please note: “Dance Dance Dance Tuesdays” is not organized by Vancouver Timberline Dance Society.
Portland Leather Alliance Board Meeting
Hobo’s (120 NW 3rd Ave., Portland), 6:00 pm (dinner) 7:00–9:00 pm (meeting)
Dinner and socializing at 6:00 pm, meeting starts at 7:00 pm.
West Coast Swing Lessons (Levels 1, 2b, and 3)
Century Ballroom (915 E Pine 2nd floor, Seattle), 6:30–9:30 pm / $65 per class (4 weeks), $5 discount for advance payment
Level 1 @ 6:30 pm, Level 2b @ 7:30 pm, and Level 3 @ 8:30 pm. Instructors: Katie & Ben. Drop-ins ($15) are allowed if you have already taken the class and the class is out of balance (lead/follow) in your favor. Runs through December 17.
Rain City Jacks
Gallery Erato (309 1st Ave S, Seattle), 7:00–9:30 pm (doors close at 8:00 pm) / Price based on membership level ($5 off for CSPC, NW Bears, and SML members or students; cash only)
Rain City Jacks is where guys masturbate together in Seattle. We are a private club for men, 18 years of age and older, who want to jack off openly and safely in a uniquely sex-positive, non-discriminating and mutually respectful community. No penetration of any kind is allowed. The fundamentals are “no lips below the hips” and “nothing goes inside anybody’s anything.” Membership is required to attend any RCJ event and enrollment is available at the door for every regular club gathering. (First-timers are allowed in early and must arrive between 6:45 and 7:45 to sign up and receive new member orientation before joining the event in progress. Make sure you bring your photo ID and cash. A 30-day trial membership is available for first-timers.) Rain City Jacks provides the time, place and everything a man needs to fully enjoy masturbation with a group of genuine, like-minded men. You should come.
All-Fetish Party. Not every kink is compatible with Rain City Jacks events but a whole lot of them are. What gets an extra throb in your penis? What pushes your pleasure to 11? December’s themed party invites you to display and share your jam with your buddies. Leather, lace, boots, feet, lingerie, sports gear, masks, underwear, nipple clamps, ball stretchers… almost anything you can wear that stays outside the body is fair game at this event. Our bottom line is always: Nothing goes inside anybody’s anything. Most wearable fetishes are perfect for this event. Expose your perv in the playspace at this special event and help turn up the heat for yourself and everyone else. Remember: No member of Rain City Jacks is ever required to participate in any theme. If you just like to share every man’s favorite pastime (stroking penis) and don’t need or want anything extra, just come to the party and enjoy yourself! But for everyone who does participate in the theme and keeps their fetish gear on through the middle of the event, those guys will qualify for our random drawing for one of three free event passes. You don’t have to participate in the theme to attend, but if you do, you have a good chance of winning your next RCJ event free.
Puddletown Squares: C2 Practice Dance
St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St. [Greenlake], Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $7 ($5 for Puddletown members; +$2 when there is a live caller)
Puddletown Squares: MS/Plus Dancing
St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St. [Greenlake], Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $9 ($7 for Puddletown members; +$2 when there is a live caller)
Rain Country Line Dancing
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 7:00–9:30 pm with lesson @ 7:45 pm
Lessons: Mambo Shuffle + The Bounce and Cry Pretty recaps / Instructor: Barb / DJ: Jim
In addition to the scheduled dance lesson, we will review the last two dances and to do walkthroughs and mini-reviews of anything else needed. Bring your own snacks if you want them (or order bar food at the bar); no outside beverages, though. Be sure to tip the instructor and DJ; they are volunteers.
Puppy Games
Guardian Games (345 SE Taylor St., Portland), 7:30–10:00 pm
Pick a card. Roll some dice! Grab a game and lets play! 18+, no cost!
Does not occur every month.
PDX Queer Munch
Radio Room (1101 NE Alberta, Portland), 6:00–8:00 pm
This munch is for anyone who identifies as queer and their partners. By queer, we mean gay men, lesbians, fags, dykes, bisexuals, pansexuals, and polysexuals along with transfolk, those who are genderqueer, gender flexible, gender fluid, and gender fuckers. If the word queer feels like home for part of you or all of you, you are welcome. And when we say “partner” , we mean everything from play partners to life partners. The Portland Queer Munch will happen every month on the first or second Thursday (depending on scheduling options).
The space is wheelchair accessible and the menu has lots of vegetarian, vegan, and gluten free options (and all clearly labeled!). There is plenty of free street parking and the 72 bus will drop you off within a block of The Radio Room. The munch will meet on the main floor instead of in the lounge areas so that we won’t be limited to 21+. This does mean that we can’t be too demonstrative about our kink so as not to scare off their other patrons, but the venue is completely aware of what our group is about and is happy to have us there! Please buy something to support the venue so that they’ll keep having us back. They do know that not everyone will be ordering food/eating full meals, but please do get a drink or a snack. Bottomless coffee is $2, and an order of fries is $3, to give you an idea of the prices.
First Thursday Art Walk
Gallery Erato (309 1st Ave. S., Seattle), 6:00–9:00 pm
Join us for the historic Pioneer Square’s monthly art walk at Gallery Erato. Featuring “Toys 2: Celebrating the Masculine Figure”,
with performances by Visible Restraint and friends. Featuring artists Allen Cutler, Dave Clay, Rae Akino, Michele Serchuk, and more artists to be announced!
Bad Girls New Member Orientation and Safety & Etiquette Workshop
Library at The Q Center (4115 N. Mississippi Ave., Portland), 2:30–4:30 pm
Bad Girls invites those interested in membership to join us for an afternoon of food, fun, and socializing. Current Bad Girls members are invited to attend and bring your friends who are interested in joining. Bad Girls is a social and educational club open to self-identified women age 18 and older. (You decide whether the club is for you; more details are on our front page.) During the Safety & Etiquette portion of the afternoon, we will cover the basics of BDSM safety and talk about community etiquette and protocol. Attendance at both halves of the workshop, and payment of dues, enable you to join Bad Girls.
Quarterly event: March, June, September, December.
Heads to the Center Club Night
Milwaukie Grange (12015 SE 22nd Ave., Milwaukie, OR), 7:30–9:30 pm
Advanced dancing. Contact Scott Phillips (
scottp@tplaza.org) ahead of time to confirm that a square will be there.
Rain City Water Sports Social & PParty
Diesel (1413 14th Ave., Seattle) (social) and private location in the Central District (party), 7:00–8:00 pm (social), 8:00 pm–12:00 midnight (party, doors close @ 8:30 pm)
Wear yellow. Piss party afterward in the Central District: space, pool, sling, and fisting supplies are provided for unrestrained play; BYOB or kick in $5 for light beer and water. Donation jar for the Washington State Mr. Leather travel fund. RSVP to
Chuckfullman@hotmail.com for party details.
Note: the social is at a bar and is not a play space; please respect the bar.
Cuff Country / Timberline Throwback
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 7:00 pm (door) 7:15 pm (lesson) 8:00–10:00 pm (open dancing) / cover after 9:00 pm (no cover with Rain Country membership card)
Lesson: Basic Two-Step and Tease line dance / Instructor: Barb & Dave / DJ: Keith
Line Dance Steps & Video: (none available, but dance is based on the Electric Slide, with two extra counts near the end)
First Friday is our intro night, with about 30 minutes of beginning two-step instruction plus a popular easier line dance.
Tonight is our annual Timberline Throwback, the anniversary of the gone-but-not-forgotten Timberline Tavern, the longtime home of GLBTQ country-western dancing in Seattle. The (second) Timberline closed in 2005, so all our music and line dances tonight are from when the Timberline was open.
https://www.facebook.com/events/2796535337069861/
Safeword
Kremwerk (1809 Minor Ave., Seattle), 7:00–10:00 pm
Safeword is a fun, foxy, shame-free environment with a verbal contract with the audience incorporated into the show and a commitment to sexy consent and a uproarious good time!
From the deranged minds of Seattle’s Queen of Kinky Comedy Claire Webber and practicing sodomite Bobby Higley comes a game-show style kink show. This is a sexy show, but it is in no way a sex show. There will be no nudity, and no one will be made to feel uncomfortable or ashamed. If anything like that occurs at the show, anyone to report the bad behavior will be deeply rewarded in praise and love of their fellow people. There will be no photos until after the show. Photos will be taken by the incredible Shan Collier.
Because (_-Consent is List AF BB-_) we have a one-strike rule: break the rules, you will be escorted out. The lovely staff don’rsquo;t take kindly to assholes, creeps, homophobes, transphobes, MAGA hats, and dumbass rule-breaking hooligans!
There will be some built-in audience participation, and we want it enthusiastic, playful, and shame free! That includes the comics!
Escape Friday Dance
Escape (9004 NE Sandy Blvd., Portland), 7:00 pm (line dance lesson) 8:00–11:00 pm (dancing)
We will have the entire dance floor, about 600 square feet! All the tables and pool table will be moved out of the way. It’s a nice long dance floor. Plenty of space for fancy turns. It’s a great sound system. Good food is available from the grill. The bar is right off the dance floor. No running up and down the stairs. It’s a bar. The atmosphere is fun and exciting. The bar is Lesbian owned and operated.
This week: West Coast Swing Night. DJ Lucas plays mostly West Coast Swing with a few two-steps, maybe some waltz, and possibly a few line dances for variety.
Oregon Men Enjoying Naturism
Private location in Gresham, OR, 7:00–11:00 pm
OMEN is Oregon’s premier nudist/naturist social group for gay and bisexual men. Our activities take place mostly in the Portland/Vancouver metro areas, but in summer have camp outs in various other cities as well. Our gatherings include potlucks, dances, camping, pool parties, spa nights, and many themed events throughout the year.
This time: End of Autumn event. A social gathering in Gresham! Potluck, rec room, massage room, Gorge views, hot tub, and OMEN camaraderie.
VAN-PAH Puppy-Tails Social
PumpJack Pub (1167 Davie St., Vancouver, BC), 8:00–11:00 pm
Come on out for a social evening with everyone from our puppy and pet community. We’ll be meeting in the back area by the pool table. Wear your leather, rubber, fuzzy, or whatever other gear you want. Of course, gear is admired but never required. Having fun is the only requirement. DJ starts around 10:00 pm for those who want to dance. Spread the word and lets all have a fun time. As this is at a bar, please note this is a 19+ event.
Seatle Men in Leather Friday Social + Pictures with Santa
Cuff Complex Patio (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 8:00 pm–12:00 midnight / cover after 9:00 pm (no cover with SML membership card or backpatch)
Join Seattle Men in Leather for a weekend leather night, every month on the 1st Friday on the Cuff patio. You requested a weekend night, we supplied.
Leather and gear encouraged, but not required. Bootblack is Carslyle.
Tonight is also the annual Pictures With Santa fundraiser, featuring Santa Paul and Mrs. Santa Shawna. Sit on a sexy lap (or bend over one!), pose a Santa and your crew, or even get a picture of you and your sweetie without Santa (suitable for giving to Mom for Christmas). $10 per picture.
https://www.facebook.com/events/990495301299646/
Leather, Scotch, and Cigar Social
Eagle Portland (835 N Lombard, Portland), 8:30 pm–12:00 midnight
A social event with a leather, scotch and cigar theme. A mix of all things masculine! Come down to the Eagle on the first Friday of each month to socialize, smoke (on the back patio), and enjoy discounted pours of Scotch! This is not a fundraising event, just a get-together for those who want to usher in the weekend enjoying the finer complexities of smoke, Scotch, and cowhide.
PDX-Rated
Bossanova Ballroom (722 E Burnside St., Portland), 9:00 pm–1:30 am / $20 ($15 before 10:00 pm, $12 in advance (
buy online))
PDX-Rated is Portland’s premier kink party held on the 1st Friday of each month. PDX-Rated is kinkier and Sexier than ever. We’ve turned the entire venue into a VIP area, that means both floors, over 11,000 sq.ft., are now one big sexy adult play lounge. PDX-Rated has always been a playground for voyeurs and exhibitionist alike, we’ve taken that idea to the next level as we’ve opened up our main stage on a first come basis giving you, our VIP’s, a chance to play on the main stage and showcase whatever your kinky minds can come up with. New DJ’s, music, and lighting will create a much sexier and intimate atmosphere in the new year.
Club Night
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 9:00 pm
No cover for leather, bear, motorcycle club, rodeo association, or country-western dance club members with membership card or club colors, or with Steamworks card.
Vancouver Puppy Mosh
PumpJack Pub (1167 Davie St., Vancouver, BC), 2:00–5:00 pm
Come join the pups and Handlers of VAN-PAH for our regular monthly mosh! Everyone welcome from pets to Handlers to the curious. Enjoy some time on the mats or get to know your fellows in the pets and Handlers community. A mosh is an opportunity for pups and Handlers to get together and socialize. You’ll find pups romping around, playing with toys and having an all around blast while Handlers socialize and play with the pups and kitties and all the other pets. Always remember gear is admired but never required!
What’s that off in the distance? Could it be the jingling of sleigh bells? Join us for a very special holiday mosh! We will have lots of goodies and surprises for everyone, with an extra hour of fun! There will be a raffle of some holiday themed items, plus goodie bags. Bring your holiday spirit and baking to our popular treat table — last year many of our community members brought cookies, bars, and other snacks to share. For homemade items, a small sign indicating the possible allergens is greatly appreciated so that everyone can enjoy. For the first time, we will also be trying out a white elephant gift exchange. It’s fun and easy! If you want to participate, bring a wrapped $20 gift to the mosh and we will handle everything else! We will also have a visit from Santa Claus and his amazing elf, who have volunteered to take photos with everyone, so wear your gear, grab your friends, and smile for the camera!
Portland Rope Social
Catalyst: A Sex Positive Place (5224 SE Foster Rd., Portland), 2:00–5:00 pm / $10
The Portland Rope Social is a monthly get together focused on all things BDSM rope related. All types of rope, all types of styles, and all experience levels welcome! Whether you are a experienced Shibari Master or a bedroom bondage type, you are welcome to come and mingle with other rope enthusiasts in an open and casual environment.
We offer a social atmosphere conducive to sharing knowledge. Are you new to this whole bondage thing and want to learn more? Are you experienced and want to show off your skills? Most of our attendees are more than willing to show you that cool tie they just did. Please respect the space. Space is 18+ for the Rope Social. Nudity is allowed. No alcohol is allowed. What to bring: Rope (some will be provided if you do not have any), rug, mat or yoga mat for the floor, and positive, fun attitudes!
This group really is for anyone who is interested in learning more about yourself and rope and for having some fun along the way!
Northwest Bears Board Meeting
Cuff Complex Dance Bar (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 3:30–5:30 pm
All club members are invited to attend the board of directors’ monthly planning meeting. Come and share your ideas, or just listen in on what your club is up to.
Cigar Social
Private location on Capitol Hill (Seattle), 3:00–7:00 pm / $5
Info: (no event listing available, may not be happening)
Hey folks, it’s time for another cigar social! Join Rivet and Jason with some of the hottest smokers in town. Also, for those already planning to make the trip to Seattle for CC’s Fetish Night, head our way a few hours earlier and get your night started right by sharing smoke and camaraderie with some good folks. Also, we will have a bootblack on duty again, so wear your boots that need some love and we’ll get you taken care of! The location is a private club; this event is for members and their guests. You’re welcome to invite along any locals who appreciate cigars and the guys who love them.
Northwest Bears Potluck
Cuff Complex Dance Bar (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 4:00–8:00 pm (buffet setup @ 3:30 pm) / $5 for non-members
Bring one main dish, appetizer, side dish, salad, or dessert to share. Beverages, as always, will be supplied by The Cuff.
Oregon Men Enjoying Naturism
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Tacoma Newcomers Munch
Round Table Pizza (7921 S Hosmer St., Suite A, Tacoma), 7:00–8:30 pm
The Tacoma Newcomers Munch is hosted by the SSLA once a month on the first Saturday of every month. It is open to all adults (18+ yrs) in a relaxed dining atmosphere. Our topics are geared toward beginners to the kink & BDSM scene and/or for people who are new to the South Sound community. We typically cover a cycle of approximately 10-12 rotating topics presented by respected subject matter experts in our local community. Think of this munch as the one where we discuss the how or what of the things that we do. While some of our topics come back around annually, we are always open to ideas and new guest speakers so if you have a concern, guest speaker, or topic idea please contact the munch facilitator/host, LeatherWolfe, privately or within the Tacoma Newbie Group for consideration.
Topic: Kinky Santa Gift Exchange. This is not your typical “White elephant” gift exchange where you pass of your crappy vanilla gifts from your office party. Gifts should be kinky, pervertable, scene related, or somehow useable by consenting adults to have some fucking fun.
Please keep your gifts somewhere between $15–25 (we actually don’t care how much you choose to spend but we would like the game to be fair and reasonable to all)
. Please wrap your gifts or make them somewhat fun or annoying to open because that is a part of the game.
Leather Azimuth Leather & Fetish Social
Out and About (327 W Lewis St., Pasco), 6:30–10:00 pm
Leather Azimuth is hosting a leather social. This event is open to everyone over the age of 21, regardless of gender or identity. We ask that you follow LURE dress code (Leather, Uniform, Rubber, Etc.), but nobody will be turned away. Please check back for classes and special events.
Vancouver Dungeon
DARKNo event in December.
CC’s Fetish Night
CC Attle’s (1701 E. Olive Way, Seattle), 8:00 pm–2:00 am
Fetish Night on the first Saturday of every month. Drink specials for everyone in gear (L.U.R.E. — Leather, Uniforms, Rubber, Etc. or “What would the Village People wear?”). Also Pups, Furries, and all other fetishes are welcome. You must be in three substantial pieces of gear to get the specials — that means footwear, pants, shorts, shirt, jacket, vest, tank top (I think you get the idea), and for subs and pups: paws, tails, collar and leash, hoods, etc. VJ Andy will also be on from 8:00 to close, playing video music to suit the night, and he’ll take any request you’d like to see played during Fetish Night. Separate entry line for folks in gear.
This month: Bar of Misfit Boys.
Come join the Staff at CCs for a night Misfits. Which character do you have a fetish for? Mr. or Mrs. Claus, elves, reindeer, the Grinch, Krampus or…
Daniel McGlothlen will be doing a bondage demo on the north pool table.
Coat check staffed by Knights of Mantra Jet Chapter.
Oregon Boys of Leather present: Boy Sauce
Eagle Portland (835 N Lonbard, Portland), 9:00–11:00 pm / $5 after 9:00 pm
Phase 2: The Tasting. This is when we will have our finalists get together to share their sauces with our judges and all of you. Proceeds will go to SMYRC (Sexual & Gender Minority Your Resource Center), and the winners will be selected on the spot! Judges Choice winner gets to move in to stage three!
Underwear Party — Stripped Blacklight Party
Seattle Eagle (314 E. Pike St., Seattle), 9:00 pm–2:00 am / $8 ($6 before 10:00 pm)
DJ Dana Dub. A clothes check will be available.
Catalyst Holiday Vendor Bazaar!
Catalyst: A Sex Positive Place (5224 SE Foster Rd., Portland), 10:00 am–4:00 pm / $5 (includes raffle entery)
The winter holidays and seasons beatings are upon us as we host our 3rd annual holiday vendor bazaar! Come see the naughty, nice, crafty, and interesting items sold by the vendors from the PNW sex-positive community! Snag the perfect gift with items from our vendors, grab a devilish new toy or two, and come see some of the craftiest kinksters in the Portland sex-positive community!
The holiday bazaar vendors don’t just include sexy items for those on your naughty list! We will have vendors for jewelry, clothing, and handmade art! Whether it be for yourself or for others, we’re sure you’ll find something unique at the Catalyst Holiday Vendor Bazaar!
Come take your photo with Naughty Santa and his little helper! Get a keepsake photo for free with any purchase from our vendors!
The Kloset’s Winter Vendor Fair
Substation (645 NW 45th St., Seattle), 11:00 am–5:00 pm / $5
Kinky Kloset Productions presents the Kloset’s Winter Vendor Fair 2019!
Floggers, whips, and paddles! Oh, my!
As well as leather goods, a wide variety of toys and other things that go smack in the night!
We are now at Substation Seattle
in the Fremont/Ballard area!
Featuring multiple rooms for you to shop! Vendors are listed on the Fetlife page. There is street parking!
Less than a 4 minute walk from bus stop route s#28 and #40. Wheelchair accessible!
Rain City Jacks Meetup
Gallery Erato (309 1st Ave. S, Seattle), 1:00–3:30 pm (doors close at 5:00 pm) / Membership + event fee (trial membership available; event fee discount for partner oprganizations; cash only)
Rain City Jacks is proud to have built an authentic group jack-off community for the men of Seattle. We are a private club for men only, 18 years of age and older, who want to experience masturbation and mutual masturbation openly and safely in a uniquely sex-positive, non-discriminating and mutually respectful place. Absolutely no penetration of any kind is allowed. The fundamental rules are “no lips below the hips” and “nothing goes inside anybody’s anything.” Read our complete code of conduct here. Membership is required to attend any RCJ meetup and enrollment is available at the door for every event. First-timers must arrive between 6:30 and 7:00 to sign up and receive new member orientation before joining the event in progress. Make sure you bring your photo ID and cash. Rain City Jacks provides the time, place and all the basics you need to enjoy real male masturbation with a group of genuine, like-minded men. You should come.
Rose City Cigar Social
Rose and Thistle (2314 NE Broadway, OR), 3:00–5:00 pm
Cigars, Boots, and Chocolate PDX is proud to present the Rose City Cigar Social, where friends new and old gather to share in their mutual interest of all things cigars, leather, boots, and lifestyle. Once you arrive, order your food or drink, and then head back to the heated and covered patio, where we will gather. What to Bring: cigars, torches, and tools. Cash for tipping the bootblack. Leather boots/shoes to get blacked (on you, or with you; as you prefer). Dress Code: Leather, Denim (blue, grey, black), Boots.
Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) Seattle
Doghouse Leathers (715 E Pike St., Seattle), 4:00–5:30 pm / $5–10 donation
MAsT meetings are open to anyone who is at least 18 years old and has an interest in Master/slave relationships, Ownership/property relationships, or other Power Differential relationships that are entered into by consenting adults as a lifestyle choice. Any relationship combination of sexual orientation is welcome to attend. One need not be in a relationship to attend. Note that our meetings are for the private use of those attending. We do not allow recording or use of anything said in our meetings to be repeated in any way or by any method of communication.
This month: Power exchange relationships
Waltz Lessons (Level 2)
Century Ballroom West Hall (915 E Pine 2nd floor, Seattle), 6:00–7:00 pm / $65 per class (4 weeks), $5 discount for advance payment
Instructors: Dean and Jodi, featuring Cross-Step Waltz. Drop-ins ($15) are allowed if you have already taken the class and the class is out of balance (lead/follow) in your favor. Runs through December 15.
Seattle Women in Leather Social and Meeting
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 5:00–7:00 pm (social) 7:00–8:00 pm (meeting)
Seattle Women in Leather is committed to education, mentorship, and involvement throughout the community at large. We are focused on building and strengthening the women’s community through camaraderie and charitable actions. We are an inclusive, safe space for individuals to express themselves in a positive manner through substantial service. Outside food is allowed, but outside beverages are not.
Puddletown Squares: Advanced & C1 Practice Dance
Welcome Table Christian Church (1322 S Bayview St., Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $7 ($5 for Puddletown members)
Portland Rope Arts Group
Catalyst: A Sex Positive Place (5224 SE Foster Rd., Portland), 7:00–9:00 pm / $5 donation
The Portland Rope Arts Group promotes education and the exchange of knowledge about rope bondage. We hold regular meetings on the second Monday of every month at the Catalyst. Meetings always involve questions, answers, demonstrations, and discussions about the various aspects of rope bondage. Most important, the meetings allow ample time for people of all experience levels to practice in a safe and respectful environment. Depending on the attendance, we may split into groups, including: a beginner’s group who immerse themselves in a fundamentals class, an intermediate group who enjoy a class demonstrating and learning more advanced ties, and a practice group commonly referred to as the Chaos group.
Perspectives: Life Drawing and Photography
TheSpace2 (Vancouver, BC), 7:00–10:00 pm
TheSpace offers this opportunity for all those who want to practice their artistic skills in drawing, painting, and photography. Every second and last Monday of the month, one or two Kinbaku practitioners invite artists and enthusiasts to sketch stunning poses and beautiful moments. Email
shibaridojovancouver@gmail.com for address, etc.
Leather @ The Lookout
CANCELLEDEvent no longer occurs. Final listing.
Brief Encounters
Eagle Portland (835 N Lombard St., Portland), 9:00 pm
Info: (no event listing available, may no longer be happening)
Weekly underwear night. Drop trou for Happy Hour drinks prices.
West Coast Swing Lessons (Levels 1, 2b, and 3)
Century Ballroom (915 E Pine 2nd floor, Seattle), 6:30–9:30 pm / $65 per class (4 weeks), $5 discount for advance payment
Level 1 @ 6:30 pm, Level 2b @ 7:30 pm, and Level 3 @ 8:30 pm. Instructors: Katie & Ben. Drop-ins ($15) are allowed if you have already taken the class and the class is out of balance (lead/follow) in your favor. Runs through December 17.
Dance Dance Dance Tuesdays
Vancouver-Japanese United Church (4010 Victoria Dr, Vancouver, BC), 6:30–9:30 pm (lessons @ 7:00 pm) / $10 (cash only)
We’ll dance something old, something new. Beginner to intermediate level dances will be taught, reviewed, and played throughout the night with some partner dances thrown in just for fun. Cookies, snacks, and smiles are encouraged. Drop-ins are welcome. Please note: “Dance Dance Dance Tuesdays” is not organized by Vancouver Timberline Dance Society.
Kinky Women’s Munch
Escape (9004 NE Sandy Blvd., Portland), 7:00–9:00 pm
Our monthly munch is for self-identified women interested in meeting others in the BDSM and kink communities. (You decide whether we’re the group for you; more information on our front page.)
VAN-PAH Members Only Mosh
DARKNo event in December.
Puddletown Squares: C2 Practice Dance
Private location (4312 SW Henderson [Fauntleroy], Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $7 ($5 for Puddletown members; +$2 when there is a live caller)
Puddletown Squares: MS/Plus Dancing
St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St. [Greenlake], Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $9 ($7 for Puddletown members; +$2 when there is a live caller)
All The Demos!
Presented by Max. This is a highly interactive event, mostly comprised of demos on attendee volunteers. It provides a safe and informal space to observe, experience, learn, and discuss a number of kink activities. After a brief introduction covering scene dynamics, negotiation and safety, volunteers have opportunities to bottom to Max for demos which may include:
• Rope bondage
• Electrical toys — violet wands, TENS/ErosTek, stun guns and zappers
• Needles / temporary piercing
• Pressure points
• Floggers
• Singletail whips
• Canes
• D/S and service dynamics
• Leather & metal bondage (including hoods)
• Cages
• Erotic hypnosis
Each demo will include some time for a debrief and Q&A. This is a great workshop for anyone curious about kink, as it’s an unusual opportunity to see many different types of play up close and personal. It’s also valuable for more experienced kinksters who would like to see a professional demonstration. And it’s a great opportunity to meet Max and to do a demo scene with him, of course. This workshop assumes no previous experience, and is appropriate for all genders and orientations. You can bring a partner or a group of friends, but coming alone is completely comfortable and appropriate. If you miss this workshop or want a deeper experience, Max also offers private instruction for bondage and many other BDSM techniques. Class size is limited and preregistration is required.
Bear Hump Seattle
Steamworks Seattle (1520 Summit Ave., Seattle), 1:00–7:00 pm / locker rental and membership required
A mid-week gathering of furry men, every Wednesday.
VML Hump Day Leather Social
The Junction (1138 Davie St., Vancouver, BC), 6:00–10:00 pm
Every Wednesday VML members get together and socialize for our Hump Day Leather Social. The Junction has a $10 wing and beer special or $14 burger and beer. If you can’t make it early, we usually head over to The Pumpjack Pub for some pool and beverages around 8:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend or two, all are welcome!
Rain Country Board Meeting
Private location in TBD, 7:00–8:30 pm
The monthly business meeting for Rain Country, the Puget Sound GLBTQ country-western dance club. All Rain Country members are invited to attend; please RSVP first, to ensure space is available. Potluck snacks.
Everett Leather Alliance Social
Anchor Pub (1001 Hewitt Ave., Everett), 6:00–10:00 pm
We will sponsor monthly (at minimum) social events where we will promote the core values of the Leather community — Loyalty, Duty, Service, Integrity, Respect, Courage, and Honor. The group will work to promote positive image, support local events, provide assistance within the leather community, as well as recognizing individuals that have supported the community.
Rosetown Ramblers Mainstream Class
Bridgeport United Church of Christ (621 NE 76th Ave., Portland), 7:00–8:30 pm / $100 for full series (through mid-December)
Lessons begin September 4th! They are cumulative and build on each other, so if you can’t make it to the first couple, wait for the January session. Lessons runs approximately 15 weeks.
• No partner necessary; come as you are
• No dress code; wear what you want
• All are welcome: LGBTQIA+ and allies
• Smooth soled shoes are helpful but not required
Kinky Pizza Social / Kinky Cocktails & Karaoke
Puget Sound Pizza (317 S 7th St., Tacoma), 6:00 pm–12:00 midnight
Join folks from the local kink and leather communities as we gather together for some great conversation over a glass of your favorite beverage or a hot slice of pizza.
Meet new folks, catch up with old friends, share information, techniques, skills, and the like. This open event is a great way to find out about local events, parties, or to just grow your own personal network. No guided discussions, no presentations, just relaxed conversation with some great folks.
This event is held twice monthly, on the 2nd and 4th thursdays, at one of Tacoma’s favorite pizza joints, Puget Sound Pizza. While it is open to the public, we tend to take over the entire lower bar. Dress is casual public. Eating dinner is not required and tips are appreciated.
NOTE: This is an 18+ event and not a topic discussion group. If this is your first time attending please say hello to our host Sir Doug so that he can properly welcome you!
If you don’t see Sir Doug around, please introduce yourself to any of the SSLA Members in attendance (we are usually wearing a leather vest with a SSLA patch on the back) or our surrogate co-host, Maxx who also hosts the Kinky Cocktails & Karaoke afterwards. We want to have the opportunity to say hello, welcome you, and answer any questions that you might have!
Women’s Rope Enthusiasts Group
Gallery Erato (309 1st Ave. S,
Seattle), 6:00–8:30 pm / $5–10 donation
Come to a women-centered Rope Enthusiast Group. Practice ties, show off new ties, ask questions about rope practices and issues in a warm and fun environment focused on women tops, bottoms, and switches. Or just hang out and socialize! There is a lot of experience here and all the support and encouragement you could ask for! If you knit and want to bring your knitting, go right ahead! It is, after all just really small rope, right? Similar to other rope enthusiast groups, WREG is a place for the ladies to work on their rope bondage skills and techniques. It is a place for our community to practice, learn, and share. We encourage you to bring books, questions, friends — anything that will help facilitate your learning. WREG is open to everyone but with a primary focus on women and female-identified folks. Men and male-identified folks are welcome to act as practice bottoms for rope work. Also, chocolate. If you want to bring something to share, bring chocolate. It is always appreciated.
Puddletown Squares Board Meeting
St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St., Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm
Doghouse Leathers Workshop
Doghouse Leathers (715 E Pike St., Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm
This month: TBD, presented by TBD. Limited attendance available for the workshop, so contact Doghouse Leathers on Facebook or at (206) 257–0231 for details.
Heads to the Center Club Night
Milwaukie Grange (12015 SE 22nd Ave., Milwaukie, OR), 7:30–9:30 pm
Advanced dancing. Contact Scott Phillips (
scottp@tplaza.org) ahead of time to confirm that a square will be there.
Leather Play Party
Club Z, 8:00 pm–12:00 midnight / Locker or room rental required
$3 off for SML members or those in full leather.
Cuff Country
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 7:00 pm (door) 7:15 pm (lesson) 8:00–10:00 pm (open dancing) / cover after 9:00 pm (no cover with Rain Country membership card)
Lesson: Basic-Plus Two-Step and TBD review / Instructor: TBD / DJ: TBD
Second Friday follows up on our intro night, with about 40 minutes of beginning two-step instruction and a review of last week’s line dance.
LGBTQ Country Dance
Escape Bar and Grill (9004 NE Sandy Blvd., Portland), 7:00 pm (line dance lesson) 8:00–11:00 pm (dancing)
Join Stomptown LGBTQ Country Dancing at Escape every other Friday. It’s free, it’s a bar, 21+. This is the best LGBTQ country dancing in the city. Fun, super friendly people will have you dancing all night long.
Lesson @ 7:00 pm, Basic Two-Step) @ 7:45 pm. DJ Troy.
Puppy Meet-n-Sniff Social
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 9:00 pm
Join us for fun! Join us on Friday for our monthly meet and sniff social, the night before the 2nd Saturday mosh. The social is quickly becoming our biggest event of the month and brings us together with our community at large. Howl at the moon and shake your tail with your fellow pups and handlers all night long. This is a 21+ event.
Club Night
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 9:00 pm
No cover for leather, bear, motorcycle club, rodeo association, or country-western dance club members with membership card or club colors, or with Steamworks card.
Bears, The Baths, and Beyond Seattle
Steamworks Seattle (1520 Summit Ave., Seattle), 1:00–7:00 pm / Steamworks membership and locker rental required
2nd and 4th Saturdays of the month. Music, food, and hot hunky men!
Puppy Mosh
Cuff Complex dance bar (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 2:00–5:00 pm
Our public mosh is a great way to let out your inner puppy and socialize with other pups and handlers. We provide high energy mats for moshing and rough’n’tumble play, or take some time on the quiet mats to recharge, cuddle, and receive treats for being such a good puppy! If it’s your first time at the public mosh and you don’t know where to start, keep an eye out for members of our Outreach Kennel, identifiable by their green and blue cords. They are there to answer questions and help you enjoy your time at the mosh.
The LEEP Kennel is proud to offer a new experience at the Public Mosh: Mat-Side Puppy Training! Whether this is your first visit to the Mosh, or maybe you’re just not quite sure how to get in on the fun, our Guest Trainer will be teaching the basics of Moshing to help get you comfortable getting in on the fun and engaging on the mats with all the other Pups! Look for Mat-Side Training during the first 30 minutes of the Public Mosh in a corner of the Quiet Mats!
Owners & Slaves Discussion Group
King County Library/Lake Forest Branch (Lake Forest Park Town Center, below Third Place Books), 3:00–5:00 pm
Owner/slave Group meetings and events are open to anyone who is at least 18 years old and has an interest in Owner/slave relationships, Master/slave relationships, Ownership/property relationships, or other Power Differential relationships that are entered into by consenting adults as a lifestyle choice. One need not be in a relationship to attend. Each month we have a topic to facilitate discussion. We do not expect that the discussion will stay on topic and it rarely does.
Puddletown Squares Holiday Dance
St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St. [Greenlake], Seattle), 1:00–8:30 pm / $10 for one session ($9 for Puddletown members; $10 for C2/C3 session), $15 for both later sessions ($13 for members)
Schedule:
1:00–3:00 pm: C2 and C3a
3:00–5:00 pm: Advanced and C1
5:00–6:30 pm: Potluck
6:30–8:30 pm: Mainstream and Plus
Caller: Anne Uebelacker
Rosetown Ramblers 2nd Saturday Dance
Oak Grove Community Club (14496 SE Cedar Ave., Portland), 5:30–9:30 pm / $not listed
Caller: TBD
5:30–6:30 pm — Heads to the Center
6:30–7:30 pm — Potluck
7:30–9:30 pm — MS and Plus dancing
SEA-PAH Board Meeting
Cuff Complex dance bar (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 5:00–7:00 pm
The SEA-PAH board meeting takes place immediately following the Mosh. The board meetings are open to all members to attend, and comments/input is appreciated from all members that want to be involved with the organization.
SEA-PAH Walkies
Capitol Hill (Seattle), 6:00 pm
Walkies are our social events, targeted to anyone in the community who wants to hang with us pups in a fun environment. Each month we will have something new to try and enjoy. Past Walkies have included bowling nights, movie nights, go-kart racing, and karaoke. There is nothing better than good food and conversation among friends.
This month: Caroling! Following the holiday mosh and the candidate town hall, pups carol about the hill, spreading holiday cheer!
Olympians Gathering
DARKNo event in December.
Oregon Men Enjoying Naturism
Private location in Vancouver, WA, 6:00–10:00 pm
OMEN is Oregon’s premier nudist/naturist social group for gay and bisexual men. Our activities take place mostly in the Portland/Vancouver metro areas, but in summer have camp outs in various other cities as well. Our gatherings include potlucks, dances, camping, pool parties, spa nights, and many themed events throughout the year.
This time: Free-for-all at Phil’s in Vancouver. Sit-down dinner, bonding area, massage area, and OMEN fellowship. Join us for this relaxing pre-holiday social evening.
Portland Leathermen Potluck
Private home in SE Portland, 7:00 pm
Open to both members and non-members. Meet for food and camaraderie. Bring a potluck dish to share! Host: Bill and Ron (SE Portland).
Vancouver Men in Leather Grunt Gear Night
PumpJack Pub (1167 Davie St., Vancouver, BC), 8:00–11:00 pm
Come on down to The Pumpjack Pub to catch up with old members and meet new ones. Bring some experienced or curious fetish friendly friends; newbies are always welcome.
Due to the growth and popularity of VML Leather Social nights, we have been given the Dance Floor to use for Demos! This gives us the chance to show off our skills, try something new with more space, and mingle with the vanilla population! We will definitely be using this new area to our advantage moving forward with this event! The back area will still be used for more *ahem* intimate demos…
This month: XXXMas. Bad Santa? Naughty Elf? Bad, bad, bad boy during the year? Show us!
Toys: A Visible Restraint Dungeon Party
Gallery Erato (309 1st Ave. S, Seattle), 8:00 pm–1:00 am / $30 (
buy online)
Toys is annual dungeon party for men and for people who have lived experience as men. We are now in our second year.
Gallery Erato is the Pioneer Square home of the Pan Eros Foundation (the non-profit that produces the Seattle Erotic Art Festival). It’s a large, multi-level space with tall ceilings. A perfect place for our kind of party.
When you first enter the Toys party you’ll walk through the exhibition of men-in-art (curated especially for the month of December). In this same area, we’ll have four kinky tops who will be offering brief (10-15 minute) tastings in their areas of expertise (impact, CBT, rope bondage, and violet wand play).
Then you’ll come to a suspension area and demonstration area (14’ ceilings).
The main play space will be downstairs — and it’s very large. Lots of great opportunities and spaces for play.
Pump
PumpJack Pub (1167 Davie St., Vancouver, BC), 9:00 pm / $5 (no cover in dress code)
Pig — Sir — Dad — Boy — Slave. If you associate yourself with
any of these words, then perhaps this is your night to shine. Unleash your wild-side
for Pump — our monthly leather and fetish-themed event. While the dress code is not mandatory,
for those of you who abide, receive complimentary entrance (subject to venue
capacity). Come early to mingle in the
leather dock, and be sure to check out the various kink demonstrations that will
be happening from 8:00–11:00 pm. Event partner: Vancouver Men in Leather. Soundtrack: DJ Del Stamp w/ gogo support from our beefy studs.
Guns n Roses Fisting Party
Steamworks Baths Seattle (1520 Summit Ave, Seattle), 10:00 pm–4:00 am / Membershipm and locker required ($5 off coupon available on Reegür app)
A monthly FFriendly gathering brought to you by Steamworks and Reegür. Several slings plus pads, towels, etc. will be in the boiler room, so just bring trimmed nails, a clean butt, and your lube of choice. DJ Jimi Jaxon.
Underwear Party — Men In Jocks
Seattle Eagle (314 E. Pike St., Seattle), 9:00 pm–2:00 am / $8 ($6 before 10:00 pm)
DJ Bret Law. Bring all your inhibitions and sexy up. No holes barred. A clothes check will be available.
Furfuck: Bear & Cub Party
Hawks PDX (234 SE Grand Ave., Portland), 10:00 pm–6:00 am / $18 (day membership + locker; $7 lockers for Oregon Bears members or with facial hair)
The second Saturday of each month is FurFuck: Bear & Cub Party. Time to enjoy the beards, bellies, and hirsute hunkiness that Bears and Cubs can bring! Discount lockers for Oregon Bears with valid membership cards, plus giveaways and surprises!
FuckFest
Private location in Shoreline, late night / $20
Your host: Flip, aka Seattle Horse. Provided: condoms, lube, beer, water, Gatorade, clothes check, showers, clean towels, and a deck heater on the smoker’s porch. Please note that the clothes check can in no way be construed to be secure and it would be a good idea to leave your phone, wallet, watch, and other valuables at home or in the trunk of your car.
Occurs on the Saturday nearest the full moon, with some exceptions. 2019/2020 dates: December 14, January 11, February 8, and March 7.
Rain City Jacks Meetup
Gallery Erato (309 1st Ave. S, Seattle), 1:30–4:00 pm (doors close at 2:30 pm) / Membership + event fee (trial membership available; event fee discount for partner oprganizations; cash only)
Rain City Jacks is proud to have built an authentic group jack-off community for the men of Seattle. We are a private club for men only, 18 years of age and older, who want to experience masturbation and mutual masturbation openly and safely in a uniquely sex-positive, non-discriminating and mutually respectful place. Absolutely no penetration of any kind is allowed. The fundamental rules are “no lips below the hips” and “nothing goes inside anybody’s anything.” Read our complete code of conduct here. Membership is required to attend any RCJ meetup and enrollment is available at the door for every event. First-timers must arrive between 6:30 and 7:00 to sign up and receive new member orientation before joining the event in progress. Make sure you bring your photo ID and cash. Rain City Jacks provides the time, place and all the basics you need to enjoy real male masturbation with a group of genuine, like-minded men. You should come.
Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) Portland Discussion Group
Catalyst: A Sex Positive Place (5224 SE Foster Rd., Portland), 4:00–6:00 pm / $5 (free for MAsT members, must join MAsT to attend repeatedly)
These meetings are centered around a discussion on a series of topics. Although there is usually a specific topic announced ahead of time, we also discuss anything that happens to be of importance to those present. All are welcome — you do not have to be in an M/s relationship to attend or even a member of MAsT. Please feel free to join us if you are interested in finding out more or sharing your experiences about power exchange relationships. We do ask that you are respectful of those present. This is not a play party or munch.
Waltz Lessons (Level 2)
Century Ballroom West Hall (915 E Pine 2nd floor, Seattle), 6:00–7:00 pm / $65 per class (4 weeks), $5 discount for advance payment
Instructors: Dean and Jodi, featuring Cross-Step Waltz. Drop-ins ($15) are allowed if you have already taken the class and the class is out of balance (lead/follow) in your favor. Runs through December 15.
SEA-PAH Walkies
Capitol Hill (Seattle), 6:00 pm
Walkies are our social events, targeted to anyone in the community who wants to hang with us pups in a fun environment. Each month we will have something new to try and enjoy. Past Walkies have included bowling nights, movie nights, go-kart racing, and karaoke. There is nothing better than good food and conversation among friends.
This month: Caroling! Pups carol about the hill, spreading holiday cheer!
Queer Leather Social
Escape Bar and Grill (9004 NE Sandy Blvd, Portland), 7:00–9:00 pm
Please join Steven Steinbock and others at our new venue the Escape Bar & Grill. This event is now in its 5th year. The evening is designed for meeting and mingling with old friends and making new friends.
The Escape Bar & Grill offers affordable food and a full bar. The menu is full of finger foods, entrees, sandwiches, soups and salads. Vegetarian dishes are available as well as daily specials. Also home of the Build Your own Mac & Cheese.
Remember there is the return of the Kinky Flea Market. There will be clothing, gear, and toys, if you have something you would like to sell, please bring it.
West Coast Swing Lessons (Levels 1, 2b, and 3)
Century Ballroom (915 E Pine 2nd floor, Seattle), 6:30–9:30 pm / $65 per class (4 weeks), $5 discount for advance payment
Level 1 @ 6:30 pm, Level 2b @ 7:30 pm, and Level 3 @ 8:30 pm. Instructors: Katie & Ben. Drop-ins ($15) are allowed if you have already taken the class and the class is out of balance (lead/follow) in your favor. Runs through December 17.
Dance Dance Dance Tuesdays
Vancouver-Japanese United Church (4010 Victoria Dr, Vancouver, BC), 6:30–9:30 pm (lessons @ 7:00 pm) / $10 (cash only)
We’ll dance something old, something new. Beginner to intermediate level dances will be taught, reviewed, and played throughout the night with some partner dances thrown in just for fun. Cookies, snacks, and smiles are encouraged. Drop-ins are welcome. Please note: “Dance Dance Dance Tuesdays” is not organized by Vancouver Timberline Dance Society.
Puddletown Squares: C2 Practice Dance
St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St. [Greenlake], Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $7 ($5 for Puddletown members; +$2 when there is a live caller)
Puddletown Squares: MS/Plus Dancing
St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St. [Greenlake], Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $9 ($7 for Puddletown members; +$2 when there is a live caller)
Vancouver Puppy Members Mosh
PumpJack Pub (1167 Davie St., Vancouver, BC), 7:00–9:00 pm
Join us for our Members Only Mosh! We will have our regular mosh area all closed off to make it our own private space. Wear what makes your puppy wag. Normal safety rules are in effect with regard to spikes, hard soled shoes, etc. on the mats. Nudity is allowed at this event, but only on the mosh mats. When off the mat area, underwear/jocks and shoes must be worn. Please keep in mind that sexual play is not permitted as we still need to follow bar rules in that regard. Don’t have a membership yet? You will be able to get one at the event so come on down and join us!
Rain Country Line Dancing
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 7:00–9:30 pm with lesson @ 7:45 pm
Lessons: Groovy Love + Mambo Shuffle review / Instructor: TBD / DJ: TBD
In addition to the scheduled dance lesson, we will review the last two dances and to do walkthroughs and mini-reviews of anything else needed. Bring your own snacks if you want them (or order bar food at the bar); no outside beverages, though. Be sure to tip the instructor and DJ; they are volunteers.
Rain City Jacks
Gallery Erato (309 1st Ave S, Seattle), 7:00–9:30 pm (doors close at 8:00 pm) / Price based on membership level ($5 off for CSPC, NW Bears, and SML members or students; cash only)
Rain City Jacks is where guys masturbate together in Seattle. We are a private club for men, 18 years of age and older, who want to jack off openly and safely in a uniquely sex-positive, non-discriminating and mutually respectful community. No penetration of any kind is allowed. The fundamentals are “no lips below the hips” and “nothing goes inside anybody’s anything.” Membership is required to attend any RCJ event and enrollment is available at the door for every regular club gathering. (First-timers are allowed in early and must arrive between 6:45 and 7:45 to sign up and receive new member orientation before joining the event in progress. Make sure you bring your photo ID and cash. A 30-day trial membership is available for first-timers.) Rain City Jacks provides the time, place and everything a man needs to fully enjoy masturbation with a group of genuine, like-minded men. You should come.
Bear Hump Seattle
Steamworks Seattle (1520 Summit Ave., Seattle), 1:00–7:00 pm / locker rental and membership required
A mid-week gathering of furry men, every Wednesday.
Bear Hump Vancouver
Steamworks Vancouver (123 W. Pender, Vancouver, BC), 3:00–9:00 pm / locker rental and membership required
A mid-week gathering of furry men, every 3rd and 4th Wednesday.
Cigar Bear Night
Smokey Joe’s (4411 Pacific Highway E, Fife), 5:00–10:00 pm
This will be a busy time of the month, but take a break from the normal festivities and come enjoy your cigars and/or pipes in the company of your fellow bear/cub/otters/critters.
Men Tying Men
DARKMen Tying Men meets on the 3rd Wednesday of the 2nd month of each quarter: February 20, May 15, August 21, and November 20 in 2019.
VML Hump Day Leather Social
The Junction (1138 Davie St., Vancouver, BC), 6:00–10:00 pm
Every Wednesday VML members get together and socialize for our Hump Day Leather Social. The Junction has a $10 wing and beer special or $14 burger and beer. If you can’t make it early, we usually head over to The Pumpjack Pub for some pool and beverages around 8:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend or two, all are welcome!
Metro Vancouver Kink Education
The Wise (1882 Adanac St., Vancouver, BC), 6:45–8:45 pm
This month: TBD
Border Riders Motorcycle Club Seattle Meet-n-Greet
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 7:00 pm
Come stop by and see what the Club is all about.
Rosetown Ramblers Mainstream Class
Bridgeport United Church of Christ (621 NE 76th Ave., Portland), 7:00–8:30 pm / $100 for full series (through mid-December)
Lessons begin September 4th! They are cumulative and build on each other, so if you can’t make it to the first couple, wait for the January session. Lessons runs approximately 15 weeks.
• No partner necessary; come as you are
• No dress code; wear what you want
• All are welcome: LGBTQIA+ and allies
• Smooth soled shoes are helpful but not required
Dog Pound
CANCELLEDNo longer listed on Steamworks calendar. November is final listing.
Pup Walkies: Bowling
REVS Bowl (5502 Lougheed Hwy, Burnaby, BC), 6:30–9:30 pm
Looking for a way to get your paws on a bunch of balls? (Did someone say
ball?!?!?!) Puppies, handlers, friends, and fun! Rev’s is located within a few minutes’ walk of Holdom Skytrain station, and serves both food and alcohol. Please RSVP (
vanpah@gmail.com) by Friday, November 8 so we can be sure to have enough room for everyone. **THIS IS IMPORTANT** As VAN-PAH will be paying for you to play, if you do not RSVP, you will most likely have to pay for your own game. Masks and gear are encouraged! Come out and have some fun with us!
Bad Girls Third Friday Discussion
Bare Bones Café (2908 SE Belmont St., Portland), 7:00–8:30 pm / $1–3 donation
One goal of the Third Friday Discussion is to ponder why, in an atmosphere of respect for all the different perspectives in our community. Please join us! Third Friday of the month (except August and December).
Topic: TBD.
Cuff Country
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 7:00 pm (door) 7:15 pm (lesson) 8:00–10:00 pm (open dancing) / cover after 9:00 pm (no cover with Rain Country membership card)
Lesson: London line dance / Instructor: TBD / DJ: TBD
Third Friday is line dance lessons night, with one or two of our Friday favorites or sometimes something new!
Queer Women’s Social
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 7:00–10:00 pm
This woman-centric event puts queer leather women to the front! Women need a place that can be uplifting and empowering to them and now we have it! If you are a queer woman and enjoy spending time with other queer women, you and your queer guests are welcome. Invited guests do not need to identify as women but must attend with women. Many of us want a women’s space that simultaneously is for us while allowing space for those we care about.
Above all else, this is a space for and by queer women. While that includes allowing space for the partners and close friends of women, please be respectful of the women-centric nature of the space.
While this event can run past 11:00 pm, the atmosphere can switch on weekends and we may not be able to maintain a woman-centric space later in the evening.
As this monthly event grows, we will have the opportunity to provide space for queer women’s organizations and events to host each month’s social, increasing awareness of events and spaces that might be unknown but of interest to leather women while providing opportunities to expand, fundraise, and have fun! If you are interested in hosting a monthly social and are a club, organization, or event focused on women in the LGBTQ+ and leather communities, please reach out! We would love to share space with you!
LGBTQ Country Dance
Escape Bar and Grill (9004 NE Sandy Blvd., Portland), 7:00 pm (line dance lesson) 8:00–11:00 pm (dancing)
Join Stomptown LGBTQ Country Dancing at Escape every other Friday. It’s free, it’s a bar, 21+. This is the best LGBTQ country dancing in the city. Fun, super friendly people will have you dancing all night long.
West Coast Swing leeson @ 7:00 pm, Basic Two-Step @ 7:45 pm. DJ Armadilla. Open dancing for the rest of the night with 2 line dances at the top and bottom of each hour. Shirtless Walk the Line @ 11:00 pm.
Outdancing
CANCELLEDCancelled for December; no details provided.
PDX PAH Bar Social
CC Slaughter’s Nightclub and Lounge
(219 NW Davis St., Portland), 9:00 pm–12:00 midnight
Pets of all sorts and the Handlers that keep them safe; always love a good chance to mingle and enjoy a few drinks responsibly.
Underwear Night
Lumber Yard (9619 16th Ave. SW, Seattle), 9:00 pm–2:00 am
Join us the third Friday night of every month to show off your buns! We all know you have some sexy underwear. Come show it off. Free clothes check provided.
Theme: Super Hero party!
Club Night
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 9:00 pm
No cover for leather, bear, motorcycle club, rodeo association, or country-western dance club members with membership card or club colors, or with Steamworks card.
PDX PAH Board Meeting
Old Town Pizza (226 NW Davis St., Portland), 1:30–3:00 pm
Have a say in how your pack is run. Each board meeting we make plans for the future of the club. We dedicate a portion of our time to allow for comments and ideas from our members. Also, we have a pretty fun board.
Vancouver Rubbermen Meet + Play
PumpJack Pub (1167 Davie St., Vancouver, BC), 2:00 pm
Join the Vancouver Rubbermen for a slick social post-Rubbout Recovery get together! There will be rubber bondage galore to experience, opportunities to prepare for ordering and purchasing new rubber, and meet other like-minded rubber perverts! Monthly, September through April.
PDX PAH Puppy Mosh
CC Slaughters (219 NW Davis St., Portland), 3:30–6:00 pm
Bring your friends, being your cheer, bring your favorite squeaky toy! Let’s have a party!
MAsT: South Sound
Tacoma Public Library Fern Hill Branch (765 S 84th St, Tacoma), 4:00–5:30 pm
About MAsT South Sound: We are an inclusive and integrated group and would love for you to come talk with us about the fundamentals of healthy power dynamics. We won’t pretend to know the answers, but instead offer a starting point for discussion in the hopes that we may all reach greater personal and relationship growth. All types, statuses, labels and identifiers welcome! After MAsT: Sometimes the conversation is so good that we want to keep it going! Develop deeper connections and relationships and enjoy further discussion over dinner. Location: To be announced after meeting.
This month: TBD
Border Riders Motorcycle Club Meeting
Private location (TBD), 4:00–8:00 pm / $TBD
TBD
Wildlights Walkies
Woodland Park Zoo (5500 Phinney Ave. N, Seattle), 5:30–8:30 pm / $17
Join XL Bears & SEA-PAH members at the Woodland Park for Wildlights! Take a nice stroll through the zoo, viewing the beautiful lighting and animals running about.
Oregon Men Enjoying Naturism
Private location in Vancouver, WA, 6:00–10:00 pm
OMEN is Oregon’s premier nudist/naturist social group for gay and bisexual men. Our activities take place mostly in the Portland/Vancouver metro areas, but in summer have camp outs in various other cities as well. Our gatherings include potlucks, dances, camping, pool parties, spa nights, and many themed events throughout the year.
This time: OMEN holiday gathering. Celebrate Christmas and Hanukkah in Vancouver. Potluck, massage table, fun room, and gay-themed gift exchange. Join us for this final 2019 gathering.
Dungeon Men PDX Dungeon Party
Private location in Vancouver, WA, 7:00 pm–12:00 midnight (doors close @ 9:00 pm) / $5 donation
PDX Dungeon Partys are kink friendly BDSM parties held every 3rd Saturday of the month in a private playspace.
This is a BDSM, fisting, ws, toy, bondage, flogging, sounding, electro, fucking, sucking and anything else pervy. It’s always on the 3rd Saturday of the month. We are located in east Vancouver, WA less than 15 minutes from the airport. We have 3 slings, 2 bondage/ massage tables, 3 flogging crosses, 1 medical exam table, 1 rim seat, 1 massage/fisting chair, a suspension hoist, a sauna, and more toys than most toy stores. We are a drug and alcohol free place for men to let their inner pig run wild. We encourage all types of sexual play between consenting adults.
Hawk’s Nest Party
Ellensburg, 7:00 pm–12:00 midnight
Undergear
Eagle Portland (835 N Lombard, Portland), 9:00 pm / $5 ($3 if you check clothes)
Come out and show off your undergear (boxers, briefs, jock, mankini, commando) with a room full of sexy men! DJ Anorexic will be spinning tunes all night long!
Bearracuda Portland
Bossanova Ballroom (722 E Burnside, Portland), 9:00 pm–2:00 am / $10 (
buy in advance)
DJs Freddy King of Pants and Matt Stands.
Underwear Party — TBD
Seattle Eagle (314 E. Pike St., Seattle), 9:00 pm–2:00 am / $8 ($6 before 10:00 pm)
DJ TBD. A clothes check will be available.
Blackout Leather Productions Board Meeting
Private location in Portland, 12:00 noon
Message Facebook group for location. TBD
SEA-PAH Private Mosh
Doghouse Leathers (715 E Pike St., Seattle), 1:00–4:00 pm
Prefer a smaller, quieter mosh time? Then this is for you! Come on out to Doghouse Leathers HQ for a romping good time! This is a members-only event and 18+. Please note: the Members’ Mosh is clothing-optional, but nudity is not required or expected. Please respect nudity boundaries and consent of all our attending members.
XL Bears Spa Day TBD
Palace Spa (1727 S 316th St., Federal Way), 3:00–6:00 pm / $25 (extra for some services)
This time, join us in the south at Palace Spa for some much needed pampering.
If this is your first time at a Korean Spa, we have guys who have been who can show you what to do and give you a primer for the different amenities this Korean spa has to offer.
Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) Corvallis Meeting
Corvallis, OR, 4:00–7:00 pm
Please contact Master Bill for more information.
Pawz Playground
Southside Speakeasy (3529 Fairview Industrial Dr. SE, Salem), 6:00–8:00 pm
MVR-PAH’s bimonthly mosh. Next in December.
Christmas Eve
Many events will be cancelled. Contact first to be sure.
Dance Dance Dance Tuesdays
DARK?Vancouver-Japanese United Church (4010 Victoria Dr, Vancouver, BC), 6:30–9:30 pm (lessons @ 7:00 pm) / $10 (cash only)
We’ll dance something old, something new. Beginner to intermediate level dances will be taught, reviewed, and played throughout the night with some partner dances thrown in just for fun. Cookies, snacks, and smiles are encouraged. Drop-ins are welcome. Please note: “Dance Dance Dance Tuesdays” is not organized by Vancouver Timberline Dance Society.
Puddletown Squares: C2 Practice Dance
DARK?St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St. [Greenlake], Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $7 ($5 for Puddletown members; +$2 when there is a live caller)
Puddletown Squares: MS/Plus Dancing
DARK?St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church (111 NE 80th St. [Greenlake], Seattle), 7:00–9:00 pm / $9 ($7 for Puddletown members; +$2 when there is a live caller)
Queer Leather Social
MOVED
LURE Community Social
Cuff Complex (1533 13th Ave., Seattle), 7:00–10:00 pm
Join us for the monthly dress code social in the back bar and dog run at the Cuff. All members of the leather community are welcome. Dress code is not required, but this is a leather social, so Gear It Up!
Note: This event will be occurring. Please being holiday snacks to share, and a present for a “steal or unwrap” gift exchange — men’s-oriented naughty items are great (but no regifted dildos, please)!
Portland Rope Arts Group (PRAG) Play Party
DARK?Catalyst: A Sex Positive Place (5224 SE Foster Rd., Portland), 7:00 pm–12:00 midnight / $10
Please join us for some ropey fun at the PRAG Play Party. Other types of play are welcome, but we love to see some rope involved. So come hang out and get your rope on! The Portland Rope Arts Group promotes education and the exchange of knowledge about rope bondage. We will be holding this event at the Catalyst in SE Portland. There you will find several hard points and plenty of floor space for ropey fun. Please feel free to bring a potluck item for the food table.
= Pride Celebration
= Uniform
= Boots
= Rodeo
= Drag
OMEN (PDX) MOVED
Leather @ The Lookout CANCELLED
Members Mosh (YVR) DARK
OutDancing CANCELLED
Puddletown C2 Practice DARK?
Bear Hump DARK?
SSLA Party MOVED
Whip Group (YVR) DARK?
Watersports Social & Party
BRMC Meet-n-Greet (PDX)
PDX Queer Munch (PDX)
Bad Girls Orientation (PDX)
Boy Sauce (PDX)
Fisting Party
Vancouver Rubbermen (YVR)