This is a large group men's sex party centered around fisting.
A menagerie is a collection of beasts and exotic animals, many of which make loud and exotic noises. So do guys engaged in fisting and other extreme sex/BDSM activities.
Jim Drew is your primary host, along with others who help organize and run the parties. Jim can be found at online cruise sites as either menagerieFF (most sites) or mykindofrain (AssPig).
Menagerie parties are held every 2-3 months; in 2017, we are experimenting with hosting them 6 times a year, roughly every 2 months. The date varies depending on the hosts' schedules, but are roughly earl March, earl May, early July, late August, early November, and New Year's Eve.
Send an e-mail to redhanky@soundskinky.com and include the following info:
Invites are sent by e-mail from that address (so whitelist it in your spam filter, if needed). We don't send invites via text, phone call, Facebook Messenger, Facebook events, AssPig clubs, Evite, or carrier pigeon.
Yes, you need to RSVP for every party you are attending. It would be rude to just show up without letting the host know ahead of time that you will be there. The location can only handle about 35 guys for a party, and we usually get more RSVPs than that limit.
(What happens if you show up without an RSVP in advance? You won't get invited to the next party!)
I recommend it.
If you don't RSVP a few times in a row, you will be removed from the invite list -- after all, if you aren't replying at all, you likely aren't getting the invite emails at all. (Check your spam filter.) But don't worry if you fail to reply once or twice.
No. The invite list is private.
However, if you want to know if sopmeone specific -- a buddy, and ex, etc. -- is on the invite list or has said they are coming, that I will share
Maybe. The location can only handle about 35 guys for a party, and we usually get more RSVPs than that limit, so if the party list is already full, we can't accommodate your buddy.
Regardless, be sure to ask, don't just show up with him in tow. And the same info is needed from him as anyone regular invitee -- his name, a face pic, a profile if he has one, Driver's licence pic if he is under 25, and emergency contact info.
Only one buddy per person or couple, please.
If RSVPs exceed the number of people the location can handle, we will start a wait list and notify you if you are on it. There are always a handful (hee hee) of cancellations, so we will notify guys by e-mail if we can bring them off the wait list. Cancels usually occur in the last couple days, so you could get notified up to mid-afternoon on the day of the party, which we know can be too short of notice.
You want to attend, but you won't know for sure if you can until a couple days before the party? We recommend RSVP'ing and then cancel if you won't be able to attend after all. Yes, you may be forcing someone else onto the wait list, but if you don't, you'll be the one unable to attemd.
Cancelling is absolutely not a problem. Doesn't matter if you got sick, or you had to go out of town, or family showed up, or you got cold feet, or you just decided to not come. But the important thing is to let me know you won't be attending -- preferably by e-mail a few days out, so guys can be brought off the Wait List, but even a Facebook message or a text an hour before the party is fine.
Don't be a No Show. That's rude, and it can affect your future invites.
Maybe. A couple of the party dates are pre-set and won't be moved. Others are somewhat flexible, based on the schedules of myself and my co-hosts. And sometimes we can throw in an extra party in between regular ones. But the earlier you can request, the more likely it can occur.
At a private location in south Seattle. For privacy reasons, we don't release the address except to those who have RSVP'ed for a given party.
We know that everyone isn't available Saturday nights. Some guys have to work then, and others may want to go to the theatre, to the bar, etc.
For a good sex party, you want it to last several hours -- Menagerie parties run 8 pm to 1 am (or so, until the last pig is done). Since most attendees (and the host!) work weekdays, weekday and Sunday nights don't allow for that duration. Setup for the parties takes a few hours -- cleaning, shopping, moving equipment, hanging slings, etc. -- and that makes Friday nights difficult, as does rampipng down from the work week and up for kinky play. Clean up also takes a few hours. Which leaves Saturday afternoon, Saturday evening, and Sunday afternoon. Evening parties tend to be better attended.
We have done smaller parties in Vancouver and Portland. Since we have several portable slings, we can bring some of the equipment with us -- the challenge is that we need a suitable space to host a party for
We don't charge a specific cover, but there are expenses attached to running these parties. (And let's be frank: it's a lot of work to prepare and clean up from a party, and we host these several times a year.)
If you want to donate some cash: We put out a "donation jar", which we call the Fist Kitty. Recommended amount is $10-20 per person.
If you want to contribute in other ways: Bring some play supplies (gloves, pads, lube, paper towels) to supplement what we provide. Bring some snacks or beverages. Arrange to arrive an hour early to help set up, or arrange to come back the next day to help with clean up.
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